Discussion Posts: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly | Rants & Rambles


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Rants & Rambles is a weekly feature where I share my own personal thoughts and opinions about both bookish and blogging related topics. As stated, these are MY OWN opinions and while you can choose to disagree with it, I hope that you at least respect it.

This week on Rants & Rambles I want to discuss:


In a few weeks, it will be six months since I first started Rants & Rambles. I can’t believe I’ve stuck with this for long, but the truth is I probably wouldn’t have kept at it if it weren’t for all your lovely comments. You guys are AWESOME and have kept me motivated to keep up my weekly ramblings!

(I joke)

But writing discussions are no easy tasks. Coming up with a topic, trying to validate your point all while trying not to step on anyone’s toes…not easy at all. There are definitely ups and downs when it comes to writing a discussion posts but that shouldn’t stop us from writing them. I can’t say I will ever stop writing them. I have too much fun with them.

So today, I wanted to discuss the good, the bad and the ugly when it comes to discussion posts because…WHY NOT?


Discussions posts have had a positive impact on my overall blogging experience. I met so many new bloggers because of them. My feed is LIT with all the new blogs I have discovered because of them.

Discussion posts have helped me to get out of my shell and be more active in this community. They has also allowed me to be more expressive and feel more comfortable being me…which is very LOUD in real life. I was looking at some of my older posts and laugh at how much restraint I had when it came to giving opinions about certain topics or books, but now I really don’t care. As long as I am not being a total asshole then why shouldn’t I be able to voice my thoughts? 

Discussions have also helped me to think more critically, especially when I’m reading. I now nitpick at issues in books that my eyes would’ve just glazed past before. It didn’t bother me too much when I was a teen reader, but as an adult reader, I really wished that there were more MCs who were not predominately white. It would’ve been cool to read a book about a girl who was like me. Discussions are such eye-openers and I absolutely love that more bloggers are starting to join the trend.


Personally, I can only think of one downside to discussion posts and that is that they are a bit time consuming. They require my brain to actually think and I am a lazy sloth! Most weeks when I’m thinking about my next discussion idea I start off like this:

I get excited. I am ready to write all the words. I sit down and start up my laptop and then this:

It is a weekly struggle, but I will not give in. I’ve stuck with it this long and there’s no turning back now!


Then there is the ugly…where your discussion gets labeled as being controversial and then an all out riot has erupted on Twitter…

I don’t think anyone truly sets out to write discussion posts that are going to stir up trouble, but in a community filled with such opinionated people, your posts is bound to rub someone the wrong way. I think what it is important is that we need to remember that this is just the opinion of a one and they don’t always have to reflect our own. We are all not going to agree, but behaving like assholes aren’t going to get us anywhere either. Two wrongs don’t ever make a right!

Despite the cons, I like writing my weekly discussion posts. It gives me a place to spew my thoughts and gives me a voice in this vast community. I love interacting with all you lovely folks, so please keep on sharing your thoughts. Also, I get to use gifs, which are my favorite things ever!

That is all for this week’s Rants & Rambles. I hope you enjoyed my random thoughts!

How do you feel about discussion posts?

Let me know in the comments!

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I'm Ari, a local NYC bibliophile and a forever daydreamer. You can usually find me with my nose buried in a book and my head up in the clouds. I am also a coffee addict and a chocolate connoisseur. I fell in love with the romance genre about three years ago and I haven't been able to stop reading about happily-ever-afters, which is ironic because I'm a bit of a cynical romantic in real life, haha. I hope you all enjoy my blog and fangirling with me about all the smutty reads!

7 thoughts on “Discussion Posts: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly | Rants & Rambles

  1. Discussion posts are the bane of my existence. It’s always such a struggle for me to find something I want to talk about and the jot all my thoughts down and write. I enjoy it in the end but it’s definitely the hardest part of blogging for me, which is why I only do it once a month haha

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    1. I feel like figuring out what to write about and sticking to it is always the hard part. I’m always changing my mind about what I want to write for the week, but once I do finally pick a topic, the words just flow out. I spend A LOT of time editing though, which is the part I dread the most. I always have to stop myself from editing even after the post has gone live XD. I can be such a perfectionist sometimes.

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  2. I always get a burst of inspiration for discussion posts and I write a bulk of them in a short time span. But I really don’t like posting them all the time–I limit them to 1-2 a month. So a lot of my discussion posts get posted months later and I kinda forget what I wrote 😛

    I definitely enjoy them though. I think they do a great job of bringing people together in this community. You might not have anything insightful to comment on a book review for something you’ve never read but you’re likely able to comment on a general discussion post.

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    1. I totally agree that they bring people together. We don’t all read the same books, or even the same genre, but with discussions posts, we can all find something to relate to since most of them revolve around blogging and books in general. They also spark more conversations where we can go back and forth with our thoughts instead of one person just commenting “great review” and you responding with “thanks”.

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  3. LOL, I love that Ryan Higa gifs.

    I’m super glad to read this post! I don’t do a lot of discussion posts but would definitely agree with everything you’ve said — writing them has allowed me to be more expressive and think more critically in general, whether it’s about what I’m reading, what I’m doing, etc. I’ve really enjoyed reading yours, and I think it’s amazing how many topics you’re able to write since you do this weekly. I do discussions monthly and even then I usually feel a bit lost. 😛

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    1. Reg, your discussions are always THE BOMB DOT COM! I don’t think you have anything to worry about and I love reading them. I do admit that some of my discussion are inspired by the activity I see on social media. I tend to look at them as my form of subtweeting 😳😳, but I tend to be a lot nicer. I’m just hoping that one day I don’t run out of things to talk about 😅😅.


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